Transitioning into a new season in life takes courage
and faith. Fear of the unknown can cause you to remain stuck in the present
season that you are in, and not move forward in faith to what you believe God
has called you to do.
I believe God wants me to move forward in my life, but
there are some people in my life that I have had a hard time letting go of because
I don’t know what will happen if I let them go whether temporarily or permanently.
These people in my life have been a weight or burden and caused tremendous
amounts of stress to me over the years, but I kept holding on hoping they would
change. Keeping unhealthy and toxic people close to you will cause more damage
to you than you may realize, and will keep you stuck from being free to move
onto the things God has for you. I have these “fears” that if I let go of these
significant relationships in my life I don’t know if they will reject me,
abandon me or I don’t know if I will have to face loneliness. I clung onto these
relationships because of the void I might
have in my life. For years I held on tightly to these relationships because
I feared the unknown. I guess you could say I did not trust God enough to let
Him work in their lives without me trying to fix and solve their problems.
You may not be in a situation where you may need to
let go of a relationship for a season, but you may be battling other future
fears like, “What happens if my prodigal child never “comes home,” or What if I
can’t pay my bills.” The list of fears of the future are endless. Fear of the
unknown is rooted in worry and anxiety, and ultimately not trusting God fully
with the unknowns in your life.
Fear of death, fear of loss and agoraphobia (someone
who fears the outdoors) go hand in hand with the fear of the unknown. Also,
past death experiences, near death of a loved one, divorce, or change of
lifestyle can also be related to the fear of the unknown.
Fear of the unknown can create mental blocks that can
have a detrimental impact on living your life to the fullest. Living your life
to the fullest potential can only be achieved when you come face to face with
your fear of the unknown. There are many layers and emotions associated with
the fear of the unknown, you will have to do some deep work with the Holy Spirit.
Reflect on this when you are tempted to fear something
in your future: 85% of what you worry
about will never happen, and 15% of what does happen you can handle better than
you thought you could.
Taking your thoughts captive is a key to helping with
overcoming fear of the future. If you tend to think worst-case scenarios for
the future, you bet you will have some concerns for the future. Discipline
yourself to speak out loud God’s truth from His Word and other faith-filled
statements over yourself daily that will change the course of your thinking
over time. Remember the truth that most of what you worry about never happens. Imagining
what could happen down the road will cause
you to worry and be anxious.
Spend some time with the God and uncover the roots of
your fears of the future, journal what God may reveal to you. Pray over each
issue and commit those concerns as often as needed to God.
Some tragic things may have happened to you and it
very likely changed the course of your thinking and behavior, now instead of seeing
the future as bright, teeming with potential, you may now see the future as
scary and are cautious in your everyday decisions. Don’t ignore your fears,
face them, bring them to the open and allow God to heal and speak truth into
those situations. Take it one day at a time, trying not to project all future
events as catastrophic, and if you do, stop, take the thought captive and replace
that thought with truth.
Try and focus on what is going right in your life, and
daily write down your blessings, this will help shift any negative thoughts
about the future to the positives in your life now. Overtime you can retrain
your brain to focus on the blessings in your life, instead of all of what could
go wrong.
Fear of the unknown can be detrimental to you being able
to move forward in life, and enjoying your life. If you have endured some tragedy
or trauma, your fear of the unknown is normal but with some hard work you can overcome
the fear of the unknown in your life.
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