Tuesday, May 29, 2018

Counselor's Corner: What Does It Mean to Quiet Your Soul?





Our minds can get cluttered and contaminated with worries, frustrations, and stressors. When our minds become disturbed with the negative and what all is wrong or could go wrong, we become anxious and fearful. An anxious and fearful mind leads to unrest or a feeling of uneasiness.



With all the negative clatter that comes to us through people, circumstances, and even the news; we need time to quiet our souls. Our minds were not created to deal with the constant stress and negativity that is all around, we were meant to live in peace and harmony. Sometimes in life our peace can be affected if we don’t take the time to align ourselves with stillness. Stillness can be a foreign concept to our busy and fast-paced way of living, but stillness before the Lord is not only soothing to our souls but it quiets our alarming thoughts.




→Quieting your soul is especially important if you have been feeling the stress and strains of life and feel that you are more irritable, aggravated, or tense.



→Quieting your soul allows you to breathe and be at rest properly. Being tense or easily upset over matters causes your breathing to be labored, but being quiet and still will cause you to breathe normally.



How do you quiet your soul?

1.      Listen to your body. Are you feeling tense, aggravated, or irritable?

2.      Disconnect from the negative and disturbing clatter such as the news, certain people, your phone or email, and situations that evoke tension (you know what causes you to feel tense). Take a breather from electronic devices. You cannot quiet your soul while attached to these devices, because surely your phone will beep to let you know you have a text or an email, and you will not be able to help yourself to check it.

3.      Get up early in the morning and find your quiet place to connect to the Lord, this may be outside or perhaps you have a prayer closet. Before you even begin your day sit quietly with the Lord. Quietly means not giving the Lord your agenda or prayer requests for the day, but allow time for God to minister to you first. Quieting your soul allows you to hear God.

4.      Practice at least 10 minutes daily of being quiet and still. Quiet not only your words but your thoughts.



→Your soul and spirit are connected but they are not the same. Oftentimes, our souls are so anxious and disturbed that we have difficulty hearing God in our spirit. What is in your soul can be released and turned over to the care of the Lord during your quiet times.



There are benefits to having quietness before the Lord:

1.      Peace washes over you as you focus your attention on God alone rather than your problems. Quietness is a gateway for calmness and tranquility.

2.      Quieting your soul can allow God to give you direction and clarity.

3.      Quietness relaxes your body, lowers blood pressure and heart rate, and promotes creativity.



How will you quiet your soul?





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